September Favourites

It is officially Fall, and I just wanted to highlight a few of my favourite finds before this month ends. I’m slowly trying to revamp my wardrobe (I DO NOT know how to dress for fall/winter, I’m South African!), and I am also open to trying new skincare and makeup! A few new books have also been bought so I’m…
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“I only date ________ women/men.” The line between racial preferences and straight …

source: pinterest This post is inspired by the recent backlash received by rapper Kodak Black a few weeks ago pertaining to his dating preferences; specifically that he only prefers light skin black women. Side note: I don’t personally listen to Kodak black or care for him really, but his comments sparked my interest because as a darker black woman, we…
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Can you teach people how to treat you?

This is a topic I have struggled to come to terms with; especially when you are born with the capacity to love and overdo it (and I mean, really overdo it). Can you teach people how to treat you? If you have been treated badly by a friend, family member, lover, crush, is it inherently your fault? Will you always…
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